Monday, July 18, 2011

Wanted: International Love/r

I have known people who got stressed and pushy on getting married because they have reached their 30s.  But I have also seen people who are just happily waiting for the right man even if they are beyond their 30s.  I know people who have been in the same relationship for quite a long time  and people who have never opened up for relationship even if they have broken up with their previous relationship months/ years ago.

So, what is being sought right now?  An international love/r.

I am amazed that I have actually registered to these sites for the past months.  I have met a few and have stayed friends with them.  The rest were uninterested and uninteresting.  It is also surprising that there are actually a lot of men who are looking for female species from across the world.  Female international love/r. 

Asian women, specially Filipinos, desire (mostly) the whites due to financial stability, profession, looks, future children with awesome genes and the benefit of being able to move to another country.

On the other hand, Caucasians (and other races) find Filipinas beautiful, home oriented, with manners and submission. (No need to argue with this point, just comment so I can add up your point).

Why?  I may not be able to answer why Caucasians prefer women from Asia but I can surely answer for myself.

I still prefer Filipino guys.  There is not much adjustments to be done.  They smell good and good looking.  We just need to spend time in the getting-to know-you stage.  Get to know his family. 

For other races, even in  Asia, we need to adjust  with their culture, their religion, their way of living and everything about them.  Not so difficult, right?

Filipino men are, as a package, OK to be with.  The problem arises when the guy doesn’t know his responsibilities.  NO WORK.  It doesn’t even matter if never graduated in a university.  A guy should be able to provide the needs of the family.  Only a few are able to do it, unfortunately.  You will find women earning more than men.  Some more, women working for the family instead of the men.  Thanks to unrequited love, women is able to do what men are supposed to do.  What?  Oh yes, it does not make any difference to men from other countries.  The same scenario.

So, why? Why do Asian women prefer white men?  Because white men prefer Asian women.  Opposite attracts maybe.  It is a different market.  Everything about the experience is different. 

There can be many reasons.  What are your reasons?

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